Experience others' lives
Van Jones: Reading biographies and autobiographies is very important. It doesn't have to be just people in your own field. Your best company will be people who are dead and gone: people who were ahead of you in line a long time ago. Read their stories late at night when your workers are all out at the club, or cruising on the Internet, or whatever. These people will be whispering in your ear.
You will find that successful people have some common qualities, the same patterns of ups and downs. For example, you may think that Martin Luther King was just making speeches and people were treating him like he was Jesus. But he was really bearing the cross getting hit left, right and center. The government said he was a socialist, blacks were saying he was a sell out. He hardly had a good day.
People aren't prepared for the ups and downs of this. They just think, "Oh I want to help and make a difference." Then you step into the hornets' nest of the real world. But that is just part of the journey. You will spend a lot of time by yourself, but you will find that's pretty true of the people who are ahead of you in line.
Prepare to deal with anger
Kevin Long: In my job I've found that I am constantly making people upset. Most social entrepreneurs are working on gigantic ideas with extremely limited resources. I am a CEO, program director, fundraiser, marketing director, and accountant. In addition to the international deaf community, my constituency includes my board of directors, volunteers, donors, and customers. I could easily use three full-time persons to accomplish what I am trying to do.